Walking out of your marriage
Is walking out of marriage or any relationship that easy? You can’t walk away just like that. There is no indication or sign that tells you that “boss now time has come to move on.” If one decides to move out of marriage then there is a possibility that both the partners might have tried to save this relation but things didn’t work out for them. May be things are more complicated then we can imagine. But, before you move on, try – try to talk to any friend or marriage counselor or a pastor before you take the final decision. This mediator should know both of you, a person should listen to both sides of story then only give any suggestion.
A stale relationship or marriage is never good as if you give it a second chance then also sometimes it doesn’t work. Situation that you are dealing with might be abusive or situation where affair of your partner becomes too rampant then it’s better to move on without thinking twice as things will not turn in your favor. Nobody wants that people or society should call their marriage a failure but what one should do in such a situation when you feel rejected from your husband’s or wife’s side. When both love and affection goes missing in your partner’s eyes, trust me it’s very humiliating and traumatizing feeling.
Many of the marriages collapse when the partner cheats on the other one or something your spouse has done in the past that’s has come up again due to which you are not able to give him/her a second chance. Nobody even imagine of ending the marriage. Couples always dream to live happily and grow old together but destiny might have thought of something else for them. Separation does not always end in divorce; sometimes it ends up in reconciliation as well.
In many complicated situations, you need to plan a strategy for your partner like if your husband doesn’t go out and work then who will fulfill your daily needs. In this situation a guy needs a kick, you need to tell him very straight forward that “if he will not work and share responsibilities then you have to end this marriage” and trust me it works in 90% cases.
There are times when virtually you have no choice but to leave. In these cases no counselor or friend can assist you. It is your inner self who will guide you. As you know your partner better so if it is not working out even after putting in efforts then why to block each other’s space. It’s better to move out from your marriage and start a new life. Every relationship is different – there is no black and white answer to “why your marriage was not successful?”