There was a time when men were prominently known for cheating their wives, but, with the changing equations, there is a change in the phenomena happening around. There is considerable number of cases when even wives are heard and seen of cheating upon their husbands.
How do you feel when you are cheated by your wife?
You would feel frustrated, your self-esteem may go down and you may feel like killing either yourself or your wife. You could even blame her for all the mess that has been created around.
But you need to sit back and think of reasons that might have fueled your wife’s loyalty towards you.
What could be the possible reasons?
- Inadequate relationship: The first and foremost things you need to look at are the inadequacy of the relationship. See if you gave her enough time, you ensured that she is happy with you or you kept taking her for granted. Look at the content of the bond and the sincere efforts you made to make the bond a successful story.
- Physical Intimacy: it is important that you check if your bedroom story is dull or it has some excitement. If you never paid any attention to this parts of your relationship then you to do so and this might have given her a reason to look for another source.
- Recognition: Did you recognize her and gave her the due credit for making beautiful contributions in your life? If you didn’t then you need to make an effort and start doing it even now.
- Revenge of cheating you did with her: this is seen as a very common reason for a wife to turn a “cheat”. If you cheated her in the past then you have no reason to crib about it now.
- Insufficient emotional support: Amid tying a lot many knots in your life you forgot that she needs strong emotional support for her partner, if she never got it then may have tried to find it elsewhere.
- Tangential though: both of you may have been thinking tangentially, for quite some time now. So, somebody who thinks alike would certainly grab her attention and make good partners with her.
Is there a possibility to revive?
Yes, there is, because if she intended to quite the relationship she would not have cheated upon, rather she would have told you to go away. But, if she still is there with you then it shows a good sign when you can work upon by realizing your mistakes rather than cribbing about them.
There are always some striking factors responsible for a wife cheating her husband. When the husband comes to know this, he should first introspect within himself rather than accusing and blaming his wife. When something goes wrong, only one person is not being blamed, rather it is a mistake from both the ends. So, take a re-look at the whole thing and then adopt measures to recover the relationship.