People who stay single for a prolonged period, they start developing an aversion for mingling with others. In fact, they start enjoying the single hood more than anything else on this earth.
Single hood becomes the natural flow of your life which is actually not the real flavor meant for a social life.
There are some ways you can overcome the “dating blues”
1.Past is past
You may be too scared of past that you’re not ready to explore anyone new in life. You may have developed a very reserved approach towards everything around you. But, this approach will never help your situation in any way. It will only add melancholy to even your present. So leave the baggage of past be in present.
2.Forgive and be happy
Have you ever enjoyed the happiness of forgiving someone and forgetting his mistake? If not, then try it out and feel the calmness. You realize that forgiving solves a lot of problems and more than anyone else it wills sooth you the most. Hence forgive the injustice if there was any in the past relationship and move ahead
3. New person is new
Remember that your old partner might not have been the person you wanted to be with, but, the new person is a new entity in your life. There is no point treating him based on the experiences or previous relationship. Hence, possess a fresh set of feelings for the new relationship and be positive about it.
4. Move ahead
It is very important that your baggage is changed with time. Leave the old pains and move ahead in life, that’s the true meaning of being on this earth. Give yourself sometime when you are hurt and then don’t stop, rather go on moving.
5.Learn from the old memories
It depends upon your approach whether you consider it to be a dismal failure or yet another phase of life which taught you a lot. Probably the best approach is to learn and not to repeat the same mistakes you made with your previous partner.
After, the failure of previous relationship, it is important that you take a break from any emotional transaction in your life for a very brief period. However, you have to ensure that the gap between the past and the present relationship is not a great deal; otherwise it may add on to your blues.