Happy Marriage is the core of success to the other aspects of life and this is one fact no one can deny. If your married life is happy then you will see that most of the issues which may crop up at the other ends like professional end or so would be easily and smoothly handled by you. When you get enough mental satisfaction from your spouse your spirits are high and you are ready to face the world in whatever form it comes to you.
However, there is certainly a set of reasons and a set of efforts needed to ensure that you and your spouse have a “fairy tale” married life.
Some of them have been mentioned below:
A married life which began with an “online note”
Yes, the recent studies indicate that the marriages which start online instead of two people meeting each other face to face have a longer and a healthier life. It could be so, because when you interact with a person online, you actually do not get judgemental by the looks or can even refuse to carry further after interacting for some time. But, when you interact in person, you do get carried away by the looks and you also tend to feel bad to say “no” to the person even if he or she does not match your expectations or dreams.
Standing with each other in times of crisis
There have been couples who have enjoyed a long life association rather a “lifelong one” because they have held each other very tight in times and periods of crisis. It could be a major health issue with one of the spouses, or it could be spending endless number of days without having a proper meal and it could also be spending day and night without a proper housing shelter. They have never demeaned their partner or held their partner responsible for the sufferings they had to undergo. And this is what takes the relationship far away from the world, setting an example for the rest.
Enjoying every moment of life
Do they have a reason for, certainly not, they find out one. They make sure that they don’t waste time in mourning for what they could not get in life; rather they boast and celebrate what they have. And it begins with organising “candle light dinner” at home, getting small gifts for their spouse to even organising a surprise holiday to the partner’s favourite destination. Bottom line is, they try to make every moment interesting for each other and enjoy the mutual company under any given circumstances.
People never get married to break or dissolve the same. But the marriages do enter the court room and sometimes in a quite dirty way. The tips mentioned above, if followed, are proven and have given better statistical records than otherwise. A couple has to go on making efforts to ensure that the marriage does not turn out to be boring and monotonous because this is what leads to innumerable problems.