Infidelity is the act of having a sexual or romantic relation with someone other than your partner or spouse. It can be interpreted as marital unfaithfulness, cheating, disloyalty, faithlessness, cheating, betrayal, affair, treachery, etc.
Infidelity has different meaning for different persons. Many times people want to know the definition of betrayal. To some, it is about having se xual contact with another person. To others, betrayal is more about one’s spouse feeling emotionally connected to someone else — late conversations of a personal nature with a co-worker, or an on-going, intimate friendship with another person. The fact is there is no universal definition of betrayal. When two people are married, they must care about each others’ feelings. They don’t always have to agree, but they must behave in ways that make the relationship feel safe. Therefore, if one person feels threatened or betrayed his or her spouse must do something to make him/her comfortable and clear out the insecurity. In other words, betrayal is in the eye of the beholder.
Traits of a betrayer
According to a recent survey if your partner is around 6ft tall with blonde hair and brown eyes then it is more likely that he is playing away or cheating on you. Extra-marital dating site Gleeden.com has unveiled the tell-tale traits of the average British love-rat – and here are the signs to look out for. It is believed that Aries men are more unfaithful and disloyal than others. When it comes to getting down and dirty in the bedroom, men who are romantic but like to play with toys are more likely to stray. The most common traits of an average cheater are: he enjoys watching films and playing tennis. He does not looks for his kicks elsewhere in the initial stage of a relationship but does so only after five-seven years.
The cheaters site, which has more than 3million members all over the world revealed some common reasons of betrayal. As per this 41% of the people’s reason for infidelity was se x, 33% were bored staying with the same person and the rest did just to feel attractive again. The basic signs of whether your spouse is cheating on you are: –
Change in appearance
Your sex life is just different
The person becoming too aggressive or too nice to you
You are not their first preference to speak about their life