Long Term Relationship Vs. New Relationship, An Evolution

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A legendary difference- new relationship vs. long term relationship”

Quick questions- How did you react when your beau bought a new car? The list of reactions would have been- wow, gorgeous, it’s amazing, great choice, etc.

Now tell me, how do you react when the same car reaches home after service? Hmmm! No reactions at all. It is human nature; we get excited about changes, new things, romance, candlelight dinners, beauty, love, lust, desire, etc. All these things are part of a new relationship.

As they say, the grass is always greener on the other side but on this (old relationship) side of the grass is never green. Let us see what is the difference between new relationship vs. long term relationship. You will surely relate to this articles. Give this a good read maybe it will help you tackle some “situations” in your relationship.

Now tell me, how do you react when the same car reaches home after service? Hmmm! No reactions at all. It is human nature; we get excited about changes, new things, romance, candlelight dinners, beauty, love, lust, desire, etc. And all these things are part of a new relationship. As they say, the grass is always greener on the other side but this (old relationship) side of the grass is never green. Let’s see what is the difference between new relationship vs. long term relationship. You will surely relate to this articles. Give this a good read maybe it will help you tackle some “situations” in your relationship.

It is human nature; we get excited about the change, new things, romance, candlelight dinners, beauty, love, lust, desire, etc. All these things are part of a new relationship. As they say, the grass is always greener on the other side but this (old relationship) side of the grass is never green.

Let’s see what is the difference between a new relationship vs. long term relationship. Hopefully, the pointers in here will help you tackle some “situations” in your relationship.

new relationship vs. long term relationshipMissed Call Mess

When you are in a new relationship you expect your partner to be by your side all the time. Whether it is via messages, emails, in person or calls (over obsessed, maybe). There may be days when you are not able to devote as much time to your partner as they deserve. After that, you have the audacity to missed call them. Be prepared for things to get messy.

On the other hand, if you are in a long term relationship missed calls or short calls do not harm the relation. By then you get used to the routine and nature of your partner. You respect their personal space too.

new relationship vs. long term relationshipGetting Ready for a Date

This may sound a little cliche but, we all love to get well dressed and perfectly groomed at the beginning of our relationship. It doesn’t matter where we would be going or what we are going to do on that date. From shaved legs to well-ironed dress with matching makeup and accessories. It should be pretty and perfect.

In the case of a long-term relationship, everything is straight and honest. Going on a date means pleasing your tummy and not the eyes. You are so comfortable with each other that you can go out in sweatpants too. Though exceptions are always there.

new relationship vs. long term relationshipEmotional Drama Now and Then

When you have stepped into a relationship with someone; you need to support them emotionally or at least pretend to do so. You have to listen to their childhood trauma, bully stories, and how they could never score well in maths. And of course, you have to remember every freaking detail of those stories. Chances are you may get killed (metaphorically) if you can’t recall all details of the story.

Being in a long-term relationship gives you a severe plus point. You don’t have to listen to all those traumatic stories because you know all of them. Moreover, you have listened to the same stories so many times that you have even memorized the names of the characters of those stories. *sweet*

new relationship vs. long term relationshipA Friend in Need is a Friend Indeed

Most of you will agree with me when I say, “Darn! I hate his friends but can’t say this to him”. Being in a new relationship is just as it is for a newly married couple, post wedding. The only difference between these two is in marriage you have to tolerate relatives in a new relationship you need to tolerate his friends.

In a long term relationship, chances are that his friends are more friendly with you because he doesn’t hang out with HIS friends often. The people you couldn’t stand few months (years) ago are just like family now. Most importantly, you love being around them.

new relationship vs. long term relationshipFrom Fancy Fights to World War

Trust me when I say this– there is no new or a couple in a long term relationship on the face of this earth who have survived without fighting with each other. In a new relationship, fighting is fun part because either you end up in bed together or you break up straight away. There is no third way to this. Taking of a long term relationship– fights are more like World War-3 which was waiting to happen. You try to control your anger and anxiety for a long long time but then *Bam*. Everything is burnt into ashes. You know what the best part is that you guys always come back together and are again with the feeling of ‘let us work it out towards happily ever after…!’

Always remember, it doesn’t matter how old or new a relationship is, you need to work hard to be together. If it is meant to be, that small will keep burning in your hearts forever, if is not so, then it is better to let it go.

Go through: Whether you are in new relationship or long term you need to read this

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